This simple mental model from adult development pioneer Bill Torbert has been life-transforming for me.
Normally, when we take an action, we just look at the immediate feedback and make small corrections.
This simple model shows that the feedback we get from actions is also an opportunity to transform at a deeper level. For example, we can change our strategy, and we can change our purpose. And, we can even re-examine our skills, values, identity, perceptions, emotions, etc.
The challenge is that the deeper we look, the more resistance we experience. The resistance happens at a few levels…
It takes more time to do a deeper reflection
Changing our plans can be difficult if we've invested a lot into them
Challenging our identity can trigger defense mechanisms
The opportunity is that deep reflection can lead to transformation, which changes our entire life.
How To
While doing triple-loop feedback sounds simple, it requires setting aside high-quality time to get perspective.
This means prioritizing…
